Shouldn’t have said that.

Of course there are other times where one simply cannot help being a snarky bastard.

Every so often I’ll get lippy with a client, and realize what I’m saying is wrong even as I’m saying it. I thought I’d share some of those experiences today.

A lady walks in and she’s hopping mad. Beet red, steam firing from the gaskets behind her ears, and a scowl on her face that threatens to wrench her jaw clear off of her skull. “There is NO sign out there,” she declares. “They said there would be a huge sign that says [my company’s name] on it, but there is NO sign.”

I stare past her at the huge sign in my window, perfectly visible from any and all angles at quite a distance. The only way she could have missed it is if she wasn’t bothering to look for it. I apologize for the inconvenience and we get on with the collection.

She’s so burning mad about this sign thing that she isn’t listening to my intructions. I go through the entire spiel (wash your hands, don’t flush the toilet, etc) twice before she snatches the cup out of my hands and stomps into the bathroom. About three minutes later, the toilet flushes. She comes out and I inform her that a second collection will have to be done, as she flushed the toilet.

“What!? You didn’t tell me that!”

Of course I did. Twice, in fact.

“Well, you should put a giant sign in the bathroom saying it!”

“There was one, ma’am; you just didn’t see it.”

I winced. Shouldn’t have said that.

A woman comes in with her two screaming children. These are children of an age where they should be able to go out into public without screaming. I had them pegged at about nine and twelve; definately capable of sitting quietly for a few minutes while Mommy tends to her business.

I quickly see where they get it from; Mommy is a 40-year-old brat. She insists on making the entire process as difficult as possible. She doesn’t want to leave her purse behind. She doesn’t want to wash her hands. She whines about just having her nails done. “You are welcome to come back tomorrow, ma’am,” I offer, genuinely wanting her out of my hair.

Instead, she decides to redifine “washing your hands” as “holding your hands under running water for less than two seconds”. I ask her to wash them again, properly this time.

“I just washed them.”

“Please wash them again, using the soap provided.” When detailing common sense instructions at point-blank range, I find it’s best to use a firm but polite voice. But really, there’s no way you can teach a grown adult how to wash her hands without sounding condescending. I hear her kids giggle from the lobby. The woman turns red.

She washes her hands again, while I watch. This time she makes a show of scrubbing them, but hasn’t actually touched the soap. As she goes to reach for a paper towel, I ask her: “Did you use soap?”

“Of course I did.”

“I didn’t see you use any soap.”

“Then you must be blind.”

“I’ll need you to wash your hands again, using the soap provided,” I repeat.

She does so, using nearly half the bottle of soap. As she furiously scrubs the skin off the back of her hands she remarks, “I’m a grown woman, you can stop treating me like a child.”

“I will, as soon as you stop acting like one.”

The kids in the lobby are howling. The woman glares at me for a moment, then grabs her purse (without stopping to dry her hands), wrenches both of her kids from their chairs and drags them out to her minivan. She never comes back to complete the collection.

Whoops. Shouldn’t have said that.

Four men come in, needing a drug test to get their coast guard licenses in order so they can take their commercial fishing boat out. One of them had called me about an hour prior to get my address. He drove here from the other end of the county for some reason. He insisted that he needed to come to this office, even though he could have gone to literally any drug test collection site he wanted. I don’t keep any of my competitor’s names and addresses handy, though, and because I couldn’t point him to another office he decided it was in his best interests to travel for forty-five minutes and interrupt me just as I was about to take my lunch break.

I call in their company credit card, which is charged for four tests. The first three collections go down without a hitch. The fourth man, however, doesn’t have a photo ID. He left it in his wallet, which is back at work.

“No problem. Which of you gentlemen is his supervisor?” I’m assuming here that one of the guys is the supervisor or overseer or whatever nautical term applies. But they just exchange glances. “None of us,” on of them says. “We just work on the boat.”

“Without a photo ID or a supervisor here in person, I can’t do his collection,” I point out.

Now everyone gets angry.

“Why do you need his ID? You have the man right here!”

“All three of us can vouch for him.”

“None of us can go back to work until this is done!”

Much whining and groaning ensues, but there’s nothing I can do for them. It’s not my fault the guy left his ID laying somewhere. As hostilities start to rise I point out this simple fact. “No, but it’s your fault for not telling him to bring it!”

“Excuse me?”

“You never said we’d need our IDs!”

“I assumed you knew. It’s pretty much a given. You three didn’t forget yours, even without being told.”

From this point on it’s all my fault. Even though the man without his ID was not the man I spoke to on the phone, I somehow should have still contacted him telepathically and reminded him to do something that every other adult in the United States does every day of their lives just out of habit.

Fed up with the accusations, I look at the ID-less man right in the eyes. He must be at least 20 years older than me. “Sir, you need to carry your ID at all times. I apologize if nobody has informed you of this, but in our society it is expected that all legal adults have a form of photo identification on them” I launch into a lecture about the exact purpose of photo identification, where he can acquire one, etc. I talk to him like he’s an absolute idiot; obviously his co-workers think he is.

The four men storm out. The first three are angry, the fourth merely incredibly humiliated. I never did find out if they bothered to ask for a refund.

Definately shouldn’t have said that.

Do you think there’s some kind of connection between moments like these, and being forced by stubborn clients to point out the glaringly obvious? Nah, couldn’t be…